WHAT ARE YOU GRATEFUL FOR TODAY?

YOU DESERVE 100%

A guy who doesn't know what he wants doesn't want you.

MOVE ON!

You deserve someone who is 100% sure about you.

FOCUS ON THE RIGHT THINGS

Choose to live in possibility and hopefulness.

Focus on all the reasons to be joyful and grateful.

ALL OR NOTHING

I'm either aggressively passionate or completely detached.

I have no notion of loving people by the halves. 

It's not in my nature.

SAY YES!

If someone offers you an amazing opportunity 

and you're not sure you can do it,

say yes then learn how to do it later.

- Richard Branson - 

DON'T MAKE SHIT UP

We write love stories in our imagination,,

paint pictures of people who doesn't exist,

and dream of an external bliss that never seem attainable.

Reality hurts when it hits,

but the pain is a vital lesson.

Stop falling in love with make believe people 

with make believe feelings

and start seeing the truth that maybe what you thought was real love 

was actually real lust.

IT'S THE JOURNEY

Love is not just about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship.

It's not about how much love you have in the beginning

but how much love you build till the end.

YOU DECIDE

You don't have to accept the things you are not with.

THE ONLY WAY

People only treat you one way...

the way you allow them.

LIFE BEGINS AT THE END OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE

Don't be afraid of change.

You may end up losing something good,

but you'll probably end up gaining something so much better.

ONLY TIME WILL TELL

You can't make someone be ready for what you're ready for,

and you are not obligated to wait around for them 

to make up their mind or be ready.

FEAR IS ONLY AN EMOTION

Expose yourself to your deepest fear.

After that, you're free.

There are only 2 primary emotions: Love and fear. 

- Elisabeth Kübler-Ross-

THE RELATIONSHIP I WANT

Be the kind of live you want to receive.

How much love you give and how much you take is in your control.

Above all else, never forget to love whole - hardheartedly. Don't ever let a love lost affect a love found.

I won't change for you, but I will grow with you.

There's 2 things I judge harshly on. 

The inability to for one to admit when they are wrong,

and the lack of courage to say I'm sorry. 

We are all wrong at some point, but not all of us are sorry.

BE CAREFUL

Be careful of people who tries to sell you a dream.

Many people talk a big game. Few deliver.

DON'T BE TOO HARD ON YOURSELF

Don't be too hard on yourself.

There are plenty of people willing to do that for you.

Love yourself and be proud of everything you do.

Even mistakes mean you're trying.

CONTROL

You can't control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude towards what happens to you, an in that, you will be mastering change rather than allowing it to master you.

- Brian Tracy -

ACTIONS > WORDS

You are what you do, not what you say you'll do.

CHOOSE PEOPLE WHO CHOOSES YOU

Date someone who is interested in you.

I don't mean someone who thinks you're cute or funny.

I mean someone who wants to know every insightful detail about you.

Someone who wants to hear every note of your favorite song,

and watch every scar upon your body,

and learn where each came from.

Someone who wants to know your favorite brand of toothpaste,

and which quotes resonate deep inside your bones when you hear them.

There is a difference between attraction and interest.

Find the person who wants to learn every aspect of who you are.

THE PROMISE TO MYSELF

Be with someone one who is good for your mental and emotional health.

MOVE ON

Moving on isn't about not loving someone anymore

and forgetting them. 

It's about having the strength to say I still love you, 

but you are not worth this pain.

BE A GOOD PERSON

Not everyday is a good day. Live anyway.

Not everyone will tell you the truth, be honest anyway.

Not all you love will love you back. Love anyway.

Not all deals are fair, play fair anyway.

PEOPLE ARE LESSONS

Sometimes people are lessons.

Sometimes people come into our lives to be partners.

We have to be able to recognize the difference.

When we form any kind of relationship, being hurt is part of the deal,

not in an abusive way, but in a way that you overcome fear

and expectations and misunderstandings.

This teaches us to learn boundaries, it teaches us about communication 

and it reveals our own fears and insecurities.

Relationships are just opportunities to get to know ourselves better

and what we value.

We cannot avoid suffering.

We can only meet it bravely and with an open heart.

AND MOST IMPORTANTLY

LOVE YOURSELF

ALWAYS LISTEN

Respond, don't react.

1. Have patience

2. Have humility

3. Practice self-awareness

BEFORE

Before you assume, learn the facts,

Before you judge, understand why.

Before you hurt someone, feel.

Before yous peak, think.

QUESTIONS TO ASK WHEN DATING SOMEONE NEW

When you start dating someone new, ask yourself these questions:

1. Is he good for my heart?

2. How is he contributing into my life?

3. Is he making me happy or causing stress in my life?

4. Does he respect me?

5. Is he emotionally available?

6. Is he more interested in me or himself?

LIFE IS A BLESSING

A beautiful day begins with a beautiful mindset. When you wake up, take a second to think about what a privilege it is to simply be alive and healthy.

MATURITY

Maturity is learning to walk away from people and situations that threaten your peace of mind, value, self-respect, morals or self worth.

THE 5 THINGS I VALUE

1. Honesty

2. Stability

3. Respect

4. Loyalty

5. Consistency

NO REGRETS

Never regret a day in your life:

Good days give happiness

Bad days give experience

Worst days give lessons

and Best days give memories.

Because at one point, it was exactly what you wanted.